Burial of Annie Margaret Nichol January 1892 at Cambois

[Colin Nichol]

I have today discovered that my paternal grandparents (James Nichol and Mary Alice Nichol, nee Snowdon) had their first child (Annie Margaret) on 31st May 1891. Sadly, she did not survive. She was buried in Cambois Cemetery, January 1892. I am 76 now and I cannot get my head around the fact that I didn't know anything about this.

I don't know where Cambois Cemetery was in 1892, nor if she even had a headstone.

We moved to West Sussex in 1987 (worst thing we ever did), so I can't do any local research. Can anyone please fill in any blanks for me?

[Canny lass]

Hi @Colin Nichol Welcome to the forum. The parish of Cambois was originally part of St Cuthbert's, Bedlington, it was a small parish served by the vicar of Sleekburn and a non-stipendiary priest. The Cambois church, St Andrews, is a small church built in 1860. It was formerly the mission church of St Peter's Church, West Sleekburn until it closed in the 1990s.

As a mission church it did not have a graveyard so burials took place at St Peter's, West Sleekburn.

Cambois, St Peter: Records of baptisms 1865-1936, marriages 1866-1998 and burials 1874-1966 are available at Northumberland Archives Service.

P.S.Did you know that James and Mary Alice lost a second child within the first 10 years of their marriage?

Edited Wednesday at 23:41 by Canny lass

[Colin Nichol]

Thank you very much, Canny Lass for this information. I appreciate the time you have spent, in answering my plea for help.

So, I assume that Annie Margaret is buried in the cemetery of St Peter's Church at West Sleekburn. 

I have had a look at the web site of Northumberland Archives at Woodhorn but, to be honest, I am not sure how to navigate it. It doesn't seem to accept a person's name as a search criterion. As I said earlier, we live in Sussex, so I can't get to Woodhorn in person.

I am intrigued by the mention of another child's death. I knew nothing about this. Can I be cheeky and ask if you have any information, regarding this?

Thank you again.

Colin

[Canny lass]

Hi again @Colin Nichol. The 1911 census form filled in by James himself gives the information related to the length of the marriage and the number of children living and dead.

I also would assume that St Peters is the burial place of Annie Margaret. However, money was tight in those days so she may be buried in another person's grave as she was so young. It was common practice for an infant to be placed inside the coffin of the next adult to be buried.

Edited Thursday at 09:58 by Canny lass

[Colin Nichol]

I apologise for my late reply. I got volunteered to tile our daughter-in-law's kitchen, which took a little while. Once again, I am extremely grateful for the trouble you went to and the information you have provided.

Thank you.

[Canny lass]

Pleased to have been of help. I think I may have found the other child who died between 1901 and 1911. I believe that James and Mary Alice had another daughter born in the first quarter of 1897. That would fit in nicely with the gap between the births of George and James. There are no other gaps which would allow for a pregnancy between 1901 and 1911.

The firstborn daughter, Annie Margaret Nichol born 1891, was given her maternal grandmother’s name and her birth was registered as Annie Margaret. What I believe to be the second daughter, born 1897, was also given her maternal grandmother’s name but without the diminutive form. Her birth was registered as Ann Margaret Nichol. She died the following year and her death was registered in March 1898 but then using the name Annie Margaret Nichol.  She was also buried in Cambois.

That parents ‘recycled’ names isn’t uncommon, especially if it was the name of a grandparent or parent. I myself am a perfect example. My mother gave birth to a daughter in 1931 and gave that daughter her maternal grandmother’s name – Annie. The child, Annie, lived only a few months. I was born in 1947 and was also given my maternal grandmother’s name though without the diminutive form – Ann.

Like you, I never knew anything about Annie (or another brother dead before my birth) until I was in my 70s. They were never mentioned. The discovery of a sister named Annie explained something that had puzzled me for years. My mother always called me Ann. Everybody else called me Annie. My mother had one Annie and one Ann and for a mother the one could never replace the other.

If you would like the birth, death and burial indexes for Ann Margaret born 1897 let me know and I’ll post them to your in-box (the envelope in the top tight-hand corner of the screen).

[Colin Nichol]

Ann,

        Yes, please. That would be amazing and thank you again for all of your help.

Regards.

Colin

[loopylou]

Hi, 

I had a look through the Cambois burials on FreeREG and was wondering if James and Mary Alice might’ve sadly lost another child?

Their youngest William doesn’t appear in the 1921 census with them, but there is this burial.

William Nichol buried 25 January 1914, aged 5, residence Wansbeck Terrace Sleekburn.

Lou

Edited 1 hour ago by loopylou

[Colin Nichol]

Ann,

        Yes, please. That would be amazing and thank you again for all of your help.

Regards.

Colin

[Colin Nichol]

loopylou,

Thank you for your message. The most recent information I have for the family is the 1911 Census, when they were living at 39 North Row, West Sleekburn. William was 2 years old. I can't remember anyone mentioning an Uncle William Will, Bill or Billy, so I suspect that he didn't survive.