To find a gentleman you need to be a lady. A general feminine title of nobility and other rank, specifically: 1. Used as the title for the wife or widow of a knight or baronet. 2. Used as a form of address for a marchioness, countess, viscountess, baroness. 3. Used as a form of address for the wife or widow of a baron. 4. Used as a courtesy title for the daughter of a duke, a marquis, or an earl. 5. Used as a courtesy title for the wife of a younger son of a duke or marquis. Don't take the high ground until you can defend it ...... lol