My father has the same attitude, in his late thirties he had his first stroke, which gave him a shock, but he got over it. since then he has had another 4 strokes, suffers from angina, and has had 2 heart atacke, one of which took away his speach and all the movement down his left side. he never let it get him down tho. his brother has had 1 heart attack which had the same results. the difference is my father never gave up, and is now as mobile as he was before the attack with his speach and movement up to about 95%. his brother, who lets everyone do everything for him, is still in a wheelchair and cant talk. i honestly believe attitude is a great healer, and those that dont let it get them down seem to recover quicker or have better lives until the end. "live each day as tho it was your last" is a phrase that we should all live by, not just those that know its coming early. although i find it hard to be positive about my life at times, i do admire people like joe, alan and my father, who 'just get on with it', and their stories often inspire me to do better things with my own life. the one thing my father wants to do before he dies is say the words: "theres nothing i wish i'd done before today, i'm happy with my life" and by god i think he will say them!